- What is your full name and why were you so named ?
- Were you named after somebody else ?
- Did you have a nickname as you were growing up ?
- If you did, what was it and why did they call you that ?
- Have you had other nicknames as an adult ?
- What do family members call you now ?
- Where were you born and when ?
- Do you remember hearing your grandparents describe their lives ? What did they say ?
- Do you remember your great-grandparents ? What do you know about them ?
- Who was the oldest person you can remember in your family as a child ? What do you remember about them ?
- Do you remember your family discussing world events and politics ?
- Was there a chore you really hated doing as a child ?
- What would you consider to be the most important inventions that have been made during your lifetime ?
- How is the world now different from what it was like when you were a child ?
- What kinds of books did you like to read ?
- Do you remember having a favourite nursery rhyme or bedtime story ? What was it ?
- Do you ever remember not having enough food to eat because times were hard for your family ?
- What were your favourite toys and what were they like ?
- What were your favourite childhood games ?
- What were your schools like ?
- How did you get to school ?
- What was your favourite subject in school and why ?
- What subject in school was always the easiest for you ?
- What was your least favourite subject in school and why ?
- Who was your favourite teacher and why were they special ?
- How do your fellow classmates from school remember you best ?
- What school activities and sports did you participate in ?
- Did you and your friends have a special hang-out where you liked to spend time ? Where was it and what did you do there ?
- Were you ever given any special awards for your studies or school activities ?
- How many years of education have you completed ?
- Do you have a college degree ? If so, what was your field of study ?
- Did you get good grades ?
- Did you like school ?
- What did you like the most and the least about it ?
- What did you usually wear to school ? Describe it.
- Were there any fads during your youth that you remember vividly ?
- How old were you when you started dating ?
- Do you remember your first date ? Describe the circumstances.
- Name a good friend that you have known for the longest period of time? How many years have you been friends ?
- Has there ever been anyone in your life that you would consider to me your kindred spirit or soul mate ? If so, who were they and why did you feel a special bond to them ?
- How did you meet the person that you would later marry ? Describe them ?
- Do you remember where you went on the first date with your spouse ?
- How long did you know them before you got married ?
- Describe your wedding proposal.
- When and where did you get married ?
- Describe your wedding ceremony. Who was there ?
- Did you have a honeymoon ? If so, where did you go ?
- How would you describe your spouse ? What do (did) you admire most about them ?
- How long have you been married (or were you married) ?
- What wise advice would you give to a grandchild on their wedding day ?
- How did you find out that you were going to be a parent for the first time ?
- How many children did you have all together ?
- What were their names, birthdates and birthplaces ?
- Do you remember anything that your children did when they were small that really amazed you ?
- What is one of the most unusual things that one of your children did regularly when they were small ?
- What was the funniest thing you can remember that one of your children said or did ?
- If you had it to do all over again, would you change the way you raised your family ? How ?
- What did you find most difficult about raising children ?
- What did you find most rewarding about being a parent ?
- Did you spoil any of your children ? How ?
- Were you a strict or lenient parent ?
- Did you find that you had to treat each of your children differently ? If so, why ?
- How did you first hear that you were a grandparent and how did you feel about it ?
- What advice do you have for your children and grandchildren ?
- As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up ?
- What was your first job ?
- What kinds of jobs have you had ?
- How did you decide on your career ?
- Did you make enough money to live comfortably ?
- How long did you have to work each day at your job ?
- How old were you when you retired ?
- What were the hardest choices that you ever had to make ? On reflection, did you make the right choices ?
- Who was the person that had the most positive influence on your life ? Who were they and what did they do ?
- Is there a person that really changed the course of your life by something that they did ? Who were they and what did they do ?
- Do you remember someone saying something to you that had a big impact on how you lived your life ? What was it ?
- How would you describe yourself politically ?
- Are you Conservative, Socialist or Liberal and why ?
- What wars have been fought during your lifetime ? How did you feel about them ?
- If you served in the military, when and where did you serve and what were your duties ?
- If you served in the military, were you ever injured in the line of duty ? What were the circumstances and what were your injuries ?
- As you see it, what are the biggest problems that face our nation and how do you think they could be solved ?
- How tall are you ?
- What colour was your hair as a young child and then as an adult ?
- What colour are your eyes ?
- Where have you lived as an adult ? List the places and the years that you lived there.
- Why are you living where you are today ?
- Do you wish you lived somewhere else (If so, where would it be) ?
- Describe your general health.
- What major illnesses or health problems do you remember having ?
- Do you have any health problems that are considered hereditary in nature ? If so, what are they ?
- What do you do regularly for exercise ?
- Do you have any bad habits now or in the past ? What were they ?
- Have you ever been the victim of a crime ? What happened ?
- Have you ever been in a serious accident ?
- Has anyone ever saved your life ? Describe.
- Have you ever saved anyone else's life ? Describe.
- Have you ever been hospitalized ? If so, what for ?
- Have you ever had surgery ? If so, what for ?
- If you could change something about yourself, what would it be ?
- Have you ever had an experience that you would consider to be super-natural or psychic ? Did you ever know something was going to happen before it actually did ? What was it ?
- What do you usually dream about ?
- What church, if any, do you attend regularly ?
- Describe your religious beliefs.
- Do you believe in an after life ?
- What was the most stressful experience that you ever lived through ? What helped you get through it ?
- What is the scariest thing that has ever happened to you personally ?
- What kinds of musical instrument(s) have you learned to play ?
- Would you consider yourself creative ?
- What things have you made that others have enjoyed ?
- How would you describe your sense of humour ?
- What is the funniest practical joke you ever played on anyone ?
- What activities have you especially enjoyed as an adult ?
- What are your hobbies ?
- What did you like to do when you were not working ?
- What is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to you ?
- What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you ?
- Have you ever met any famous people ? Describe what happened.
- What organisations and groups have you belonged to ?
- Have you ever won any special awards or prizes as an adult ? What were they for ?
- Describe a time and place when you remember feeling truly at peace and happy to be alive. Where were you and what were you doing ?
- What is the most beautiful place you have ever visited and what was it like ?
- What is the longest trip that you have ever gone on ? Where did you go ?
- What has been your favourite vacation ? Where did you go and why was it special ?
- What was the favourite place you ever visited and what was it like?
- What pets have you had ?
- Do you have a favourite story about a pet ? What is it ?
- Is there anything you have always wanted to do, but haven't ?
Favourites
- What is your favourite style of music ?
- What is your favourite musical instrument ?
- Who is your favourite musical group ?
- What is your favourite song ?
- Who is your favourite singer ?
- Who is your favourite movie star ?
- What is your favourite movie ?
- Who is your favourite artist ?
- What is your favourite painting ?
- Who is your favourite poet ?
- What is your favourite poem ?
- What is your favourite TV programme ?
- Who is your favourite author ?
- What is your favourite book ?
- What is your favourite season ?
- What is your favourite tree ?
- What is your favourite flower ?
- What is your favourite holiday ?
- What is your favourite colour ?
- What is your favourite sport ?
- Who is your favourite athlete ?
- What is your favourite animal ?
- What is your favourite meal ?
- What is your favourite fruit ?
- What is your favourite vegetable ?
- What is your favourite candy ?
- What is your favourite biscuit ?
- What is your favourite drink ?
- What is your favourite restaurant ?
- What is your favourite flavor of ice cream ?
- What is your favourite board game ?
- What is your favourite card game ?
Listography
- List the cities you plan to visit.
- List the countries you hope to go to.
- List modes of transportation to take.
- List museums you want to visit.
- List outdoor adventures you want to have.
- List sports or games you'd like to try.
- List your dream jobs.
- List national parks and gardens to visit.
- List beaches you dream of seeing.
- List things you want to accomplish.
- List things to do when you're in retirement.
- List habits to break.
- List authors and poets you want to read.
- List artists and photographers you'd like to explore.
- List things you'd love to be knowledgeable about.
- List films you would like to see someday.
- List moments in your life you don't want to forget.
- List the classes you'd love to take.
- List recipes you want to try.
- List TV series to see.
- List things you want to do during future winters and summers.
- List environmentally friendly habits you need to start.
- List good deeds you long to perform.
- List plays, performances, and musicals to see.
- List changes you wish for the world.
- List events to time travel to (past or future).
- List things to do when you're feeling down.
- List future Halloween costume ideas.
- List animals you'd love to adopt.
- List other lives you'd want to lead if you had nine lives.
- List habits to develop for your health.
- List mistakes not to repeat in your future.
- List things you hope to receive one day.
- List qualities you want to have as a parent or godparent.
- List what you'd do with an enormous amount of money.
- List places you could see yourself living.
- List parties you'd enjoy throwing.
- List unique sights to visit.
Family Descriptions
If you had to pick a label for your family members (your spouse, children, parents, grandparents, brothers, sisters, aunts & uncles, cousins), who best fits the following descriptions ?
- the best cook
- the hardest-worker
- the quietest
- the best memory
- the best gardener
- the funniest
- the best-looking
- the animal lover
- the most politically-active
- the most mischievous
- the calmest
- the most athletic
- the most intelligent
- the most educated
- the best career
- the most creative
- the wildest lifestyle
- the most sociable
- the biggest tease
- the best house-keeper
- the most reclusive
- the most colourful
- the most relaxed
- the most frugal
- the most generous
- the tallest
- the shortest
- the best story-teller
Naming Traditions
Our ancestors often used the following naming procedure when picking out a name for a new child. This explains why certain names are VERY common in a given family line. Watching for these patterns can help in your genealogy research.
1st son = father's father 2nd son = mother's father 3rd son = father 4th son = father's oldest brother 5th son = father's 2nd oldest brother or mother's oldest brother 1st dau = mother's mother 2nd dau = father's mother 3rd dau = mother 4th dau = mother's oldest sister 5th dau = mother's 2nd oldest sister or father's oldest sister